W admitted that she still had no feelings for me and doesn't think she ever will. We both agreed that RetroV has really helped us with our communications, but that has not converted into any kind of marital breakthrough.
AS, I'm sorry to hear this. At my BD my W said to me "I feel nothing for you". Not an easy thing to hear. If anything, I'm glad my W put it out there and was not holding it in. Since our BD I have not heard such a statement and feel like our communications have improved significantly. However, I'm not sure if W's feeling of connection to me is growing. I'm just going to continue to DB.
Your posts on this site are very helpful for me. I have no doubt you will move forward and have a happy life regardless of outcome.
I can also see by your wife being 'scared' she is still confused.