He talked to me about falling at work and how it made him feel mentally as well as physically vulnerable. When security came he told them- I don't need you, my wife knows how to handle all of my paper work crazy Oh, I'm his wife now.
Then he went on about the g-baby on the way and how that is making him feel like life had gone on while he wasn't looking, dah you stupid sh!t head, and how were not prepared and we can't have a house of unsettled issue's between us. WTF??
wtf in deed. nice if even for one brief moment in time he was "back" and functioning somewhat normall. i'd give quite alot for one word of "normal" conversation that had some meaning and thought in it- instead of just jokey crappola.
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I made a comment that I was always the one who picked up his slack and vise versa like all good couples. He says to me - what slack do you have, none.
so- i've thought about that very thing many times. these jerks go out with ow to be able to be a big big cheese to someone needy- and they need all the gratification of "fixing" tings for some loser going down- YET - they picked us because of our strength of character- seem now to hold it against us- my own h is critical of any show of "needieness" in me- yet he's apparently entranced by his ow's neediness. wtf - your guy too- do you think it's same with him??? as much as he liked your strength- why the heck do they need to go find someone who neeeeeeeeds them. it makes me nuts. i don't see myself laying on a couch asking him for help- not me. but then- ARE WE SUPPOSED TO BECOME NOT-US TO GET ALONG WITH AND ENCHANT NOT-THEM??? could we even if we tried- i don't think so- they would be grossed out i think. i could be wrong- i guess i usually am (come to find out) w/men anyway.
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If your H drops a bomb like he's going to be w/ow I don't know what I would do, but maybe you should at least be alert. I don't know if I would be able to refrain from saying something. But, like they say here if you do than he goes there feeling justified because you just gave him that.
oh crap- i've been thinking this same thing. biting my tongue is making me nuts. i think the same thing- i swear i don't know if i can do it or not. i saw a receipt on tab le yesterday in front kind of where i sit- it was for a card from target. all i can think is valentine for his ow- his one true love, blah blah gag gag gag..... that little thing bums me alot. was it you in one post saying your h didn't get cards for you- and something abouty a card for ow? someone did- it struck a cord for sure.
my h used to give me lovely cards - the things he couldn't say himself without having a stroke (uh hem image i guess, you know!). anyway- i managed to NOT say anything ratty or sarcastic about itallllll lyesterday. this morning it's gone- jerk- jerk jerk jerk jeark jerk jerk - WHO ME_ NO, I DON'T have feelings, i don't have a brain, i don't feel pain, i don't have a life (well, true enough sometimes) etc.
ONLY HIM- HE'S the sensitive guy with feelings,e tc. (NOT)
I'M OUTTA HERE- BACK LATER XXOO not so rosey here today i'm afraid- working on it tho
