You guys crack me up with your comments about the cleavage. I can write lol and have it be true :-)
GTO, yes, it's been a long journey. Actually, it's been a 3 year journey, bc my H first brought up that he was thinking about a D in February of 2010. End of 2010- mid 2011 was the A, and early 2012 is when he moved out. And here we are. Thank you for your encouragement about the book. I'm actually feeling excited about being able to help other people who will go through this. The 2010 Tori was a very different person from 2013 Tori. I'm meeting him tomorrow for lunch. I do think he'll realize he made a mistake in the future, but who knows when that will be. And yes, it might be too late by then.
FY, We've had some of those moments in which he looks into my eyes for a while, and I wonder what he's thinking. It has happened a lot, and it used to happen even more right before he moved out. I'm sure he's still conflicted, but his vision of a better future w someone else (free of "baggage") is too enticing to pass. Plus I think he feels that it took him so long to make the decision that nothing should stop him now. Mind reading, but I'm pretty sure I'm right.
I just finished my meeting with the L. Some of the standard D stuff will send my H's blood pressure through the roof. I tried to get rid of some of the clauses, but the L advised against it. I have a feeling there'll be a lot of going back and forth with this doc. I also think the L expenses are going to be a lot higher than expected. Ugh.
Thank you for helping me start the day with a smile :-)
