Well, last night my H realized I went through and cleaned out his box of receipts. I left behind all the extremely incriminating ones and he was in a bad mood and furious all night. He was yelling because I went through his stuff but the truth is I know he is really mad bc he knows all the stuff I saw. Why he left it in plain site is beyond me. Then he starts saying I need to get it through my head he doesn't want me anymore and doesn't want to be with me. I didn't argue or answer. I basically ignored him. Then I said calmly that he is yelling at me but he was the one that did this, not me. This morning he had job interview and woke up screaming at me bc he had to get ready. I didn't do his ironing or anything and he won't admit it but he was annoyed that he had to do it. I continued to ignore him then when he was leaving he asked why I look upset. I said nothing and continued with what I was doing. He asked me again. He said I was in a bad mood and moping like my dog just died. I told him that wasn't the case and said goodbye to him. I really hope he gets a job so I can move on from this mess. I don't argue anymore. I know he was angry yesterday because he was well aware that I found hotel receipts, etc. The only thing I did say to him was I know so much about you now more then you even think I know. Didn't mention the arrest report and I hid it away. I'm sure he knows and I won't say anything. If I have to divorce and he tries for custody and they are still together I will need to prove that the environment for my kids is not good with the OW around. I pretty sure he was mad bc he sees it gone but is afraid to mention it.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14