And if the situation is so complicated, how are you going to get through it without lawyers?
If you decide to wait it out through mediation how are you going to do it without creating other legal problems for yourself? From what you write here about H and OW, don't you think they will now retaliate or look carefully for other reasons escalate this?
I want to clarify, something you quoted from me. I don't think I said lose the anger but rather work through it. I think having anger is to be expected in your situation but staying angry and acting our of that anger isn't. Right now your H is controlling you. Can you see that?
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
