Well...I received my separation papers from my H yesterday. Needless to say, I was hurt beyond belief. I won't go into details, but it really is hard to believe that H can do this and not even give a second chance after 20 years.
I continue to stay dark, and have received no communication from him. Not really sure how this is working, but have to have a sliver of hope that I can still DB. I am working on me, GAL and all. Exercise is hard to find time and energy to do, but will continue working on that as well.
Any words of wisdom will be greatly appreciated.
Me 46/H 48 M 19/T 20 D 21 Away at College D 17 PA 9/12 H left 10/23/12