Bklyn, I was hoping you'd show up - I so wanted to hear your view!
Thank you... I know reacting to POS OW (love that!) won't get H to see the light.
But I don't care. I think I'm done.
The only family member I have who could help me to think through the recent bunch of financial disasters is MIL.
Seems a bit awkward to keep showing her what a POS her son is. But you're right I need someone to help - it's getting difficult for me to know what to do next... it seems so unreal. Every other day i find something else that stbx has frittered.