Everyday it seems to get worse. Litigation [censored]. BS accusations. Custody fight. Going to court. Lawyers are loving it. Just don't get the hate. Unfortunately I have no choice but to fight back. Splitting up is one thing but the nastiness and lies and money being thrown away. Kids in the middle. We will never even be friends now. I still for the life of me don't know what I did so wrong. Yes, I take my side for the dysfunction but this is a level of hate that just does not fit. I get this letter from her L today that accuses me of accusing her of still having another man. It says that I said "hope he was a good lay" in front of my 10 year old. Wtf? Not a chance did I say that or even say anything let alone in front of my child. That is sick. Is this a tactic, or did she dream it or just fabrication???? Honestly, how does one turn this ship around...and quickly? What is wrong with her? I know it is not their business by why would a friend or family member not say anything? She would always write special notes in her greeting cards to me, always something different and seemingly from the heart. On my B-day and Christmas 2010 she writes how happy she is and she is proud of me and loves our family so much and what a great husband and dad I am. Weeks later she has an affair. Wtf is the truth anymore?
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
