So I woke up this am, at 1:42 am and had no idea why. Then I saw that I had a text from H. It just said "just wanted to let you"

I was confused, but decided to go back to sleep. About six minutes later I get three or four messages in a row, telling me that he's waiting on tax documents, one from a company he didn't remember the name of, but hasn't forgotten that I need them to file. He also mentioned that he's glad I'm doing well.

I'd thought he was going to say he was going to file, since he's getting his bonus check this month. At this point, I think I'm okay with that, because I want the opportunity to date too.

I responded this afternoon, thanking him and giving him the name of the company-it was an event he'd worked with me.

I've realized that I don't think about H nonstop anymore. Before I would text H if I had some sort of reason to. And I'd decided that since I'd be requesting car insurance money around the 10th, I'd just wait until then to remind him about taxes, etc. So it was strange that he contacted me first.

I guess I could have tried to be more conversational, but I just didn't feel like it. And I'd asked him before to contact me about this stuff during normal business or daytime hours, so I was a little annoyed to get it just after I finally went to sleep.

On a positive note, I went out to lunch with some friends yesterday and had a great time. And tonight I hosted another singles happy hour. It was a much older crowd, but I still got hit on, as usual.

If/when I am single, I'm not sure who I want to date. I don't want a much older guy, but I don't want a younger guy who might still have a MLC in his future.

No point worrying about that now, so I'll put it off til later.


M36 XH34
M-5 T7
4/11 H confused
5/11 ILYB
6/11 OW discovered
7/11 I move out, OW over
5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file
9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3
3/13 H/OW break up
H files 4/13
D 6/18/13