Hey Nero, You have to start a thread so I can fill it up with my wisdom, lol! It was good to hear from you, things are weird here. Not-H was actually H this morning for about a 1/2 hour, it was really strange like a coming home for those moments.
He talked to me about falling at work and how it made him feel mentally as well as physically vulnerable. When security came he told them- I don't need you, my wife knows how to handle all of my paper work Oh, I'm his wife now.
Then he went on about the g-baby on the way and how that is making him feel like life had gone on while he wasn't looking, dah you stupid sh!t head, and how were not prepared and we can't have a house of unsettled issue's between us. WTF??
He went on about his coat and asked me if he should use it...two days ago it was - your not my mother! Then he asked me to look at his back for damage and if I would call the doctor, and what pills should he take, omg!
It was like for those minutes he was tired of being alone. He couldn't even make coffee, dropped the cream, and called me over to help please. I made a comment that I was always the one who picked up his slack and vise versa like all good couples. He says to me - what slack do you have, none.
Ok, I'm glad he went to a side job during the day because that was all to weird to fast. I know tom. will offer no change and it will be MLC as usual, but I have to say even my D19 saw a glimpse of her F today.
So your alien hugged you? Did it feel weird like an awkwardness you couldn't imaging? Mine kissed my cheek again yesterday morning.
I think the offer to keep me "satisfied" may have been a momentary effort to keep me from chucking the M (as he did) because he wants to keep me honest. After all we can only have one a$$ in the family at a time. Who knows!
If your H drops a bomb like he's going to be w/ow I don't know what I would do, but maybe you should at least be alert. I don't know if I would be able to refrain from saying something. But, like they say here if you do than he goes there feeling justified because you just gave him that.
When all else fails, I give the wide eye stare....and I have big eyes!
Good luck...enjoy your visit...I envy the weather my toes are cold. I hate winter without a warm body around me, gonna have to get me one of those if next winter brings the same ole sh!t.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!
Oh, I'm his wife now. 
may have been a momentary effort to keep me from chucking the M (as he did) because he wants to keep me honest. After all we can only have one a$$ in the family at a time. Who knows! 
