The train lady is right. The question for you (and me and everyone here) is how long will your W continue on this path before either she or you decides she's/you're done?
This is a rhetorical question since noone can answer this and everyone sitch is different. I know I won't be waiting around for 3-4 years for my H to see if OW is in fact still in the picture. I deserve a life and I guess I'm not that patient.
Hold onto hope, though. Patient and faith, I believe ar the answers.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.