Longrun, when your W says you don't "touch her soul" I think she means that she doesn't feel emotionally connected to you. I think that somehow she didn't feel she could trust you or get the support she needed from you, or whatever emotional connection means to her. Actually, that would be a good thing to figure out. What does emotional connection mean to her?
Work on building respect and admiration from her. Based on your post, it seems she lost some of that, too.
Hang in there, and thank you for posting on my thread. (((((())))))
