Your suggestions made me smile. My H thinks makeup is "gross," so I never really wore makeup. But now I'm starting to get into lipstick and bought my first mineral makeup a few weeks ago. Cleavage? When your bra size is 34 AA, cleavage is not the most realistic option :-)
The smile? I am always smiling, even when I'm not happy. My IC used to asked me why I was smiling when I was talking about something painful--so I started being self-conscious of over smiling.
Your post made me realize that my image might be too "sweet." Too "cute." I remembered some guys in college passing by me and saying to each other: "Nope. Too cute." I've got to bring up the sexy, wilder side of me.
Thank you for your last words. It's true. Nothing to lose marriage-wise.
