One thing about a D lawyer is their main objective is not reconciliation. It is to get you what is best for you. It will force your H to get a D lawyer and I think at that point reconciliation would become less likely. Is your goal still reconciliation? A D lawyer will not push you closer to that goal.
Thank you VeryGrateful, I kinda feel like I would not "try" to do anything between us now. I don't know if I need a D lawyer since I feel like our case is not very complicated. I didn't know that if I get a lawyer, then he will have to get one. At this point, I think if he somehow becomes that good old him again to me, I'd consider reconciliation, if not, I am not asking anything anymore. I just want out and have my new life.
