I'm happy to hear from you and love the lessons you wrote down! I hope that you find your dark moments created a turning point for you that changed who you are in your relationship. Several of those points you mentioned would have caused me to act sooner or act differently in my marriage 10 years ago or so.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.