VG, this is exactly what my H did. He would call, text and email every day--I never initiated contact. But then he complained he had never had a chance to miss me. I asked why he called me, and he said he had felt obligated and that's why he had done it. I don't know what the truth is, but remember the WAS is very confused. Maybe you can try not answering the phone sometime, or waiting a longer than usual time to get back to her.
