The ups and downs of DBing

[Wendylon]

I think you're right, Tori, that I need to schedule more sessions with my coach. I will definitely schedule one for when H is next away. With the time difference, it's not that easy to schedule times other than evenings my time and I find it a bit inhibiting to have a session with H in the house. I look forward to hearing more of your thoughts.

I guess I'd love H to brainstorm with me about what to do. He seems to expect me to sort everything out and I do.

S17 is off to France on Sunday for some work experience. I just looked at his train tickets (booked by H) and noticed that H had got one of the dates wrong. S17 pointed it out to H and H is going to sort it out. That sort of thing really irritates me. Why can't H, an intelligent man, book a train ticket without getting it wrong? It's the kind of thing he's done ever since I've known him (nearly 23 years!) and it still bugs me. I guess that won't change...

Domestic, day to day details just don't stick in his head. Then again, he knows everything there is to know about chemistry, biology, politics, music, current affairs... I don't retain any of those sorts of facts but I'm analytical, logical, good at detail and can solve maths problems pretty efficiently. We have completely different strengths and weaknesses. Sometimes, I yearn to be married to someone more like me. I really wonder what that would be like.