Nlw Think your behavior was totally logical and reasonable. It would break my heart to see that. You are right you would have to be a saint to just breeze on.
However I do know that reacting to this POS OW will not get your H to see the light.
Hang in there, you are a great mom under tremendous emotional and financial pressure. Is there a close family member that can help you sort your finances, it most be over whelming to have all this stuff come due and no one figure it out with.
I love you
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13