After I read your posts and thought more about the night I think I may have written it a little backwards. W got quiet first and when I noticed is when I started thinking and got down. Not sure if that's any better since I let her energy change my attitude but I'm still pleased overall how I handled it. I see there is more room for growth (not let it affect me at all) but I'm happy I was able to get it out of my head quickly. Always more work to do
Bug/ Tori, When I started thinking last night it did cross my mind to say something but decided not to because I didn't want to seem like I was pressuring a talk or anything like that. Hopefully one day we'll get to that point but I'm trying to take everything real slow right now and give her space and just be friends. That's why I tried to make a few jokes about a few pictures to act 'as if' it wasn't bugging me rather than sit there in total silence.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
