I am NOT initiating R talks! I just find it uncomfortable to be around him and not to be able to just talk about anything except the kids and finances. It actually drives me crazy when all he does is reviews the kids' schedule for the next day! (Necessary, but when its ALL about that, it is just ...well, limited and robotic.)
I have my kids 7 nights a week right now, so getting out once on the weekends is about all I can manage. Plus, my 3 boys are all busy w own activities and that keeps ME busy too. (Not to make excuses, it just is what it its).
Where did you find new people to meet and new activities???
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.