I am sorry to hear what your going through. My future EX shows little emotion about our sitch. She's a good person who IMHO is losing out on a good H. The fact your H's personality is changing back and forth might be a good thing. It sounds like there's an internal battle going on. Depending on how you handle this could help determine who he becomes. Unfortunately he blames you for everything because he can't blame himself. Your an easy target
Please do yourself a favor and work on you. It makes you a stronger person. Also if you haven't done so write down 3-5 goals of things you would want in your M. Break them down in smaller baby steps. It's one of the basics of DB'ing. I am sure there are many people on this board who could help you with this
All I can tell you is when I did this I felt like there was hope. When I stopped I lost all hope. Then my sbx got a lawyer and it will be over soon.
