IMHO, I think you need to slow down. Take it slow on the GAL. It sounds like you're trying to GAL the same way you were trying to get your W back. You want it to be quick. Stick with the cooking first and go from there. You want to be sure you have the time and commitment to those you are volunteering for and not just as a way to get your mind off our M.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.