reforce on me

[littleGTO]

PoN, Thanks for your great advice. You are absolutely right on all points.

I do know I need to stop mind-reading.

I read 5LL & was not good w meeting H's but he was better w me.

I do think I need to disappear even more when H is around on w/e's. I try to be busy but I also tried something different since being dim wasn't changing anything.

When I try talking to him it is like talking to a wall. He obviously isn't interested in talking about anything other than what we need to (kids, finances)...not mind-reading here, I actually asked him why he wasn't responding to my conversation.

He said, "It's just hard with the situation (OW in his life). Does he actually feel like he's betraying her talking to me?

GAL's...well, I have been meeting up w old friends, exercising my brains off, and going to boys' activities. I also scrapbook at home. Need to get out and meet new people, I think.

Still thinking and researching about getting a cat.