Thank you Starsky. I've been considering making a low and high demands list that I got from the book after the affair. High would be the letter/email to OW.

Honestly, I've had these conversations with him so much that I just want to take a break from it all. What's also helping is that his actions demonstrate him moving closer and closer to us.

All in all GREAT things to think about.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017