Lonely, Sad and No Communication

[LJC]

I thought you had agreed on custody. If it's her night with the kids, then she waits until Sat.

Hey Labug - Yep we have I've given her dates all the way up the end of March. This is what I mean she says it like she's doing me a favour, so I don't have to do the 2 min walk round to hers on a saturday morning. I really can't have the kids but she will just turn to someone else now, either way she will do whatever she intends on doing and obviously I can't control that.

Then talk about all the great things you're doing and how much fun you're having, THAT is what you want to get back to your W. That you're enjoying life WITHOUT her. That will make her wonder what you're up to

Hello AS - Thanks for replying to my Sitch its great that you have the time and I'm thankful. Ref the last part of your post above, this is what I'm fearful off. She will probably notice and it might make her sad but instead of reaching out to me she will move on. I know this is a bit of mind reading and second guessing but I really think she will move on if she see im enjoying life without her. It will rid her of the guilt and think its safe for her to announce someone else. At the moment I couldn't be further from 'enjoying' anything as all I can think about is my W, what she's doing, what she has planned for the W/E and I can't get these thoughts out of my head. Nearly four months in and she is still affecting me!

Thanks again