ForeverYoung, Thanks for your incite. Its great to get an outside prospective on the situation.

I do these things for myself to keep busy. She has a higher tolerance for living in a messy house than I do. I am am doing my best to GAL but its so hard considering my life was my family. I have joined up for swimming lessons and looking at getting into karate.

She wants to lower the price on the house to sell it quicker and meet with a Mediator to do up a plan to split the assets and develop a parenting plan. Its hard to act positive when its something i don't want to do. Seems like I would be encouraging the separation?


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.