Barely catching up on your thread and wanted to add to 25s post. When I was feeling tired and not "in love" so to speak, I thought it was because I was tired of waiting around for H to make some dramatic moves. However the thought of him making those moves didn't change how I felt.
Someone said, this has more to do with you than with him. She was right. I needed to re-energize myself. I shouldn't wait for H to do it.
Then I went to MC alone. He said, oh so you want him to read your mind... That bothered me, but you know why?? cuz it was true!!
So I went back to reading After the Affair and got re-energized. I'm finally beginning to feel excited about H. Not WHOOO HOOO! but whoo hoo... lol!
Take care RLA! ques...are you on the alt??
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
