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Hi LittleGTO,
I learned that seeing H on a daily ongoing basis made it very difficult for me to detach. It took me 7mos to focus on myself and a year after that to really work on detaching.

And although I'd like to think that I finally surrendered, I continue to work on it everyday.

All I can recommend is that you continue to work on detaching. Just like forgiveness, it's a choice. As you practice it continuously, you will feel it. It may take a while or it may be sooner than you think.

Don't measure yourself by other's timeline. This is your timeline. No one here is living your sitch. We all share very similar events however everyone's sitch is unique.

It isn't until now that I can thank God for my journey. If it weren't for this experience I would not have made tremendous hurdles to be a better mother, daughter, sister, friend. Not just a better partner.