Haha! So following your footsteps, but about a year back. ONly difference is, H doesn't care about Divorce. I know it will be me who initiates, eventually. H is on to dating other women..lmao...sigh. Oh well, I wouldn't change this journey though...learned a lot about myself, didn't you?
I like the gratitude journal.
I also agree with letting L handle alimony. You already know you are going to cave, so give L minimum of that is what you want to do and say this is amount...he works for you, not other way around...lol!
I don't think H will take it the worng way. You can just say this is the amount I would have asked from you one on one, but thought it would be better that Lawyer handled it.
