Oh by the way, how does everyone last so many months without intimacy! The thought of paying for sex has crossed my mind several times because of the blue balls situation I find myself in. Ick! I have NEVER had to do that. But I feel if I went out and got some random. Woman I would get attached (EA).

Is an escort the answer? Lol. Or do we all just take care of ourselves if you know what I mean. This could take a while! Suggestions appreciated =)


Me, H-34 now 38
W-32 now 35
T-13 now 18 years
M-6 now 9
Daughter 3 years now 7
Bomb 11/27/12 - OM
1 year in house separation
Reconciliation 12/2013. Healed now 2017