Thanks for the advice on making myself less available. The odd thing is since our separation (started 16 days ago) I have seen or heard (phone call or text) from my W every day but one. We have agreed that we will see each other 3 days/week for various things. I indicated I would not initiate contact the other 4 days (and actually I've been doing this since October, giving her space). However, she is contacting me on these other days. Usually kids logistics but sometimes chatting about someone we know or something she did. She is kind of letting me know what she is up to all the time. No talk about the relationship however and I'm not going there unless she initiates.
