Oh, I'm so glad my thread finally showed up! Easily the best moment of my life in the past 3 weeks.
@stilllokingup: I don't know what exactly she meant by "I feel like I've wasted my time with you". She did say things like "I'm f*****g done", "I literally can't do this anymore", "I have no reason to stay", "I resent you", "I'm very angry at everything now". Those statements make me feel hopeless. She refuses to see or talk to me. I haven't emailed her in a week because I realised it was making her more angry. I don't know if she is having an affair; but even if she is, we can work it out if she is willing.
I have already started working on making the changes that she wanted. Being in different cities makes it hard. I don't know if she will ever notice the changes, or how she will notice them. I fear it will be too late. I have sent our my resumes to god knows how many places. Had 3 interviews as well. But no luck so far.
