EXPERIMENTING with physical touch with W

[25yearsmlc]

geez, there are some articulate people here. I hope you take in SOME of what is said b/c I know you'll resist most of it.

Too bad.

I'm only going to say ONE thing. You harp a lot about your w and the OM. You insist she's in a fog and it's like an addiction and yada yada. I don't discount all that at all.

do Not misunderstand OR misquote. But I read more books on MLC than DBing and it was utterly useless.

Your lectures (and that is what they are) sounds so much like what I would read and talked & talked about with "MLC" and my sitch and the reality is that

it makes NO difference if it's an OP or an MLC or they are a WAS...

in terms of what WE must do in Our lives.


That's the single biggest reason it's wasteful to keep talking about it. It does NOT change what you must do.


Plus, your w told you BEFORE the OM about the problems in the m. You keep acting as if nothing was bad before he came along, but that's a lie you keep tellng yourself. Why?

When you admit dropping the ball in the m, the next sentence is a defense of why you did it (& all "noble reasons" of course. You worked too hard, SHE didn't compliment you enough for you to feel good about yourself, the "stress" of it, not making enough money to feel confident, etc.)

and now, you are basically telling us that taking vitamins has fixed all YOUR issues.

IF SO, you ought to market those things.