Keeping my wife from walking out

[stilllookingup]

I agree with MrBond. It’s up to you if you still want to fight to save it.

“Listen what your spouse is telling you”
Do you think she’ll feel sorry for you and she’ll want to save you if you act that way? In a situation like that I used get quiet and give an attitude like you just did hoping he’d sense it, feel sorry and correct it. One time I did something he didn’t like, and he said calmly “What I said doesn’t mean anything to you? I said no” I knew right away I shouldn’t have done what I did but I was ashamed, embarrassed and quite frankly didn’t know what to say. I looked away, stayed quiet until I could say something clever. Then he blew up. “I don’t know what to do with you sometimes!” I mean he BLEW UP.

Now I think about it not only he did not like the way I was but he did not like the way he was around old me. I couldn’t make myself happy, he couldn’t make me happy. What’s left for him to do? leave and divorce!

You really need time to yourself big time to collect your thoughts. You need time away from her. Don’t talk to her for a while. THINK.