I add my thankful heart to this list for your help and input and constructive empathy 25. I do not post much here, but have benefited enormously from your comments and from our direct conversations. Your insight has been incredibly helpful when my own vision has been clouded with pain and angst to the point I could say I am metaphorically "legally blind". We know "rose colored glasses" do us no good whether whether we wear them in an attempt at unrealistic optimism or the abyss of despair. There is nothing like the voice of someone who has been in the trenches and knows the land mines to dodge. Thank you for your efforts on our behalf.