Portia, How are things going in your world? Keep to your plans, but don't make the 14th your final "drop dead" date. Things will continue to sway to and fro for a long tme, but you are the only one that can make the determination when you've had enough. If his calls/texts get to you, go dimmer.
The journey in mlc land is not a sprint...it is a marathon and it takes a long of time, energy, and patience.
I would not share my proposed dates of when things should happen w/him. This is only for you to have a timeline.
Hang in there!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.