I'm not going to spend the rest of my life trying to win back my H. He either wants to be together or not.
Well this forum is for people that want to do the hard work it takes to restore their marriage. DB'ing is all about fixing our own problems with the end goal of attracting our spouse back. We're not here to sit around and wait to see if our spouse will change their mind, we're actively doing things to encourage them to change their mind.
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At this point I could care less.
Then perhaps this isn't the right environment for you, because we here do care to get our spouses back. We care a LOT. And we care that others get their spouses back too, so much so that we're willing to give our own time freely towards that end.
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I don't consider this support.
Maybe what you need is individual counseling. That is not what these forums are about, we are not counselors, we are peers who are in various stages of our own marital problems. We are here to offer advice and to help steer you in the right direction. If what you're looking for is emotional support then counseling might be a better option.
