" So please stop trying to analyze me. You don't know me, and you don't understand me. Just help me with answers to questions i have, or if you don;t have answers to them just tell me you don't."
What an @$$.
You don't get it. You can't just take the answers that fall in line with your thinking. There is no absolute answer to these things. The only person who knows what their going through is your W.
And all that nonsense about her 'culture' is just more excuses. Even in the most marriage honoring societies there are people who have A's. It just is. People are people.
Bottom line is that you have a WAS who is going out with OP. That's the same thing many many many people have had to go through and are trying to offer you advice but you keep discarding them.
Really ungrateful sounding.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.