Hi Tad your quote: 'We were married 26 years and it has now been 25 months. I'm not done. But.....if this is true, wouldn't it also be true for the MLCer?'
I've heard it can take 1 year for every 7 years of the relationship to come to terms with it. And in some cases it can take longer than that. It took me about 4 1/2 years to fully come to terms with it. But every now and again it can still hit me! but nowhere near as bad as it used to. And feck her I say! (my EX W that is).
