kids are hers from previous....I have always enjoyed a great relationship with them and they have always called me "dad".
The day that we told them we were going to no longer be together, we told the kids that they could always contact me if they needed or wanted for any reason.
Since D day, she pulled that connection....and has refused to let them contact me anymore.

As to the letter that was just sent...I ran it by Jody my coach before hand...it was approved for sending.

M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12