when I ask him about his lies, he answers the same way. "that is not a question that I am prepared to answer". The conversation is very boring because I ask different questions and he responds exactly the same way to every question.
The therapist said that is putting up boundaries. He says this way he isn't lying, he's just not telling me the truth. Hmmmm. seems sort of similar to me.
What I don't understand is WHY LIE? He has filed for divorce, he has left the house--why on earth does he have to lie anymore? He's gone! what can I do to him anymore? He is FREE!
