Does anyone have any advice for how long to wait for a reply before asking about (or for that matter how to ask about) the kids and seeing if there is any change in her position on keeping them from seeing or contacting me??
I don't see any reference in the letter to the kids? Specifically to the letter, do not ever ask about it or mention it or expect any kind of acknowledgement or reply. You sent it, she knows your position, leave it at that.
Regarding the kids, do you have no visitation? Was this negotiated in the divorce?
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One more thing I wanted feedback on. When it comes to GAL....I am continuing to rebuild in so many areas of my life, with a new direction in a couple business ventures, hobbies, educational goals, and even plans for building a new house this coming Spring/Summer. Working out, doing my yoga, joining a new church.....
Fantastic, keep it up!!
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out of the blue she makes a pass at me. I told her that I was flattered, but wasn't there at all on that level with her or anyone in the near future.....I honestly was really bothered and it was like I was feeling guilty, like I was cheating...and here I have been divorced for 5 months.
Actually that is not unusual. You'll know when you're ready. If you're not ready yet then don't sweat it. The timeline is different for different people. Some move on right away and others need a year or more. There's no hurry.
