Sorry the last paragraph is a bit confusing....I meant to say,

My W texted me last night while I was over friend’s house for dinner. The first was, “I wanted to ask you to come to nieces graduation no matter our situation is at that point”. Family lives in FL and the graduation is probably in June. The second text was that from W was that, “my family loves you and want you to be there”.

Friday when she was here, she said her timeline for the divorce was in April for it to be final. Going to FL in June to be with her and her family would be very awkward and confusing to me. Maybe this something I can figure out how to work on too…Any thoughts suggestions on what to do here???

M-49
W-47
M - 09/2008 T- 09/1994
No Children
4 dogs/2 cats
EA 11/2010
Sep 09/2012 (tried in 05/2012 and W came back to work on us)
As of now does not want to work on anything but herself...