Absolutely kat! It has to be part of the 'interview' questions! "Have you already had your midlife crisis and do you feel it is completely out of your system?" LOL

It's definitely a risk vs. reward questions isn't it? It just makes me wonder how broken I really am. Do I feel this way strictly because it's Gabe or is this pervasive?

Kat, I wanted to do the same thing at a couple of weddings in the couple of years after the D. Both were family members and it was SUPER hard to watch them enter into something that could potentially hurt them so badly. I see warning signs in one of their M's but they seem to be working through it.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!