Oh, and I hope you know that what I meant about how "awful" you were is...there is NO excuse to be verbally abused. None.

Yes, there are different ways to learn to communicate. I know that when things get heated, I say the above and get out. When we talk again, it is calmer.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D