I get you on the replaced part. And I don't even know for certain if OM is at play but I get the replaced part not being at family functions, celebrations and others filling my role.
I like what Bug has been reminding you....this has noting to do with you and it is not your fault. Yes, some co-dependence feeding the narcissist. Don't feed him anymore. He does sound abusive from what I have been reading and catching up on. Emotional and psychological abuse is often worse than physically. The scars run deep and healing is trickier as the wound is harder to see and reach. Take care, we love you. Do not be bullied. Be assertive. You are only 30 and that is to your advantage in so many ways.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
