I have had sessions with Laurie, but not since November. She guided me to the 180. There is so much anger and resentment within my W. I don't think she can bring herself to look at herself. She has tried to bully me the past few days on a couple things but I am not yielding. Pleasant, but a no way. Just holding my ground. She actually sent me an email today not to use the BMW as it was hers. I took it to the corner store and back yesterday. First time in months. Ummmm....I paid for half, pay insurance, it is half in my name and she is $8500 behind in payments for joint expenses? Should I tell her not to use the phone, the electricity, the water, the house for that matter? Her sense of entitlement is unreal. Nope...I shall hold my ground in a con-confrontational but assertive manner. She has gotten so petty, I will not stoop so low, but will have my boundaries. I replied to her email in kind but frank.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.