You helped the Us conversation perfectly and you seem committed to no longer living in limbo.
Your text response was completely normal and non adversarial. Of course she needs to look for reasons to justify her leaving and breaking up her family so she looks for the negative in everything.
I have been in a funk the past few days too. The only thing I can do is stay busy GALing, go to Alanon, read these threads and read other positive books.
For me I cant hang out with many people that are old friends because they tend to say the wrong thing. I need to stay positive and stay focused on my blessing in life.
YOu can do 2tp, look at how far you have come. You should be proud, your boys will day know what you were willing to do for them and their family. How you have been humbled but kept pressing forward. They are lucky to have such a strong and loving dad.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
