Urworthy, You are so right and your words helped me so much. I needed to hear it out loud so to speak that even if we went to different MC, he still would have left. It is too easy for me to blame them.
It hard sometimes buying that my husband is in crisis since he is so high functioning. He just got another promotion. I think his promotion also effected my mood. We both have had the same career goals and now I take the safe and comfortable job and he is a rising star in the business. It was OUR dream and now I am watching from the window.
Lois thank you for all your insight. I just need to be reminded how strong the disease is all the time. Like I said above its hard because my H is high functioning and all our peers think he is da bomb. If they only knew, actually the savy ones do kind of get that their is something wrong with him even when I say nothing.
My H definitely wants the financials to finish up this d thing, he said so in the email. Basically because he has a jerk for a lawyer who is robbing him each month that goes by. Unfortunately his lawyer likes to delay things and blame me and my father/lawyer, we have not delayed a thing. My H only filed this april 2012 but had the lawyer on retainer since Sept 2011. Very typical of his behavior is to blame me because the divorce is not final and not himself or his lawyer.
NLW, I love you and feel such a kinship with you in our struggles.
Ladies, your last round of words has revived my spirit, plus I had an amazing day with my girls. I am blessed.
Thank you all for being here
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
