Thanks, ruby,

Do you mind sharing more specifics of what you mean when you decided how you were going to live your life as a D person?

You are right that I need goals. It's hard to think of the future in ANY terms right now.

M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.